Sunday Reflection: Wisdom and Mercy

Could anyone nourish anger against another
and expect healing from the LORD?
Could anyone refuse mercy to another like himself,
can he seek pardon for his own sins?
 

Wisdom, my friends, is a highly prized and sadly rare virtue these days.  Wisdom demands that we root our experience in truth, even when it’s inconvenient, and shape our values around that truth.  Wisdom demands responding dispassionately rather than reacting emotionally.   

The Hebrew people so prized the virtue of wisdom that one of the sacred books of the Hebrew Scriptures was the compilation of wisdom saying from Judah ben Sirach.  In the Catholic Bible, the Book of Sirach is also called the Book of Ecclesiasticus.  While Catholics view this book as truly inspired as the Word of God, Protestants consider this book part of what is referred to as the Apocrypha – spiritually useful but not necessarily inspired of God. 

However, Christians view the wisdom saying in the Book of Sirach, they nevertheless challenge believers and all people of good will with the importance of shaping the character and integrity of our lives by wisdom. 

The opening passage of today’s reflection is a commentary on the simple golden rule, the principle of treating others as you want to be treated.  Virtually every religion down through the ages possesses some variant of this wisdom saying that has proven to be the anchor of personal integrity and character. 

Could anyone nourish anger against another
and expect healing from the LORD?
Could anyone refuse mercy to another like himself,
can he seek pardon for his own sins?
 

Flowing from the golden rule is the hallmark virtue of human compassion, namely mercy.  It is precisely this virtue of mercy that characterized so much of the healing ministry of Jesus the Savior.  It was mercy and the healing of the human heart that Jesus exemplified in his daily ministry.  For he knew in his own heart that it was unfailing mercy that would eventually save the world. 

As we welcome the new week before us with its challenges and blessings, let us pray for the gift of wisdom whose mercy can make all things new.

 

 

 

Sunday Reflection: Exclusion or Inclusion

…for my house shall be called
a house of prayer for all peoples.

It would be a complete understatement to posit the obvious: we live in contentious times!  As citizens of the United States who are nearing a Presidential election, that statement is squared, a hundred times! 

Contentiousness is not just a reality that we experience in the world of politics.  As a priest for over 45 years, I’ve sadly encountered that painful reality within the community of believers in the course of my many years in ministry.  It is for that reason that the quote from Isaiah the Prophet with which I begin my reflections this day, has always been a challenging and refreshing counterpoint to the tendency among some in our Church, to divide and exclude. 

With the painful reality of divorce and remarriage occurring not infrequently among Catholics, I welcomed a more compassionate approach articulated by Pope Francis in his document of some years ago, Amoris Laetitia (The Joy of Love).  Undoubtedly, the most controversial part of this letter was the opening, in limited circumstances, to the Eucharist for some couples who had remarried after a divorce and had not or were unable to receive a church annulment.  The controversy and uproar that such a possibility occasioned among the more conservative segments of the church continues to today.  You would have thought that the Holy Father was undermining the entirety of Christian doctrine by such a proposal!  Good Shepherd and merciful pastor that he is, he understands the hunger that many couples in this situation have for the food of life.  He understands well that the Eucharist is not a reward for the perfect but rather a source of strength and encouragement for sinners.   

Withholding the Eucharist to wield power and punishment is something that I will never completely understand.  While I’m sure that the handful of bishops in our country who have felt in conscience that they must deny the Eucharist to Catholic elected officials who are caught in the painful conundrum of trying to live their faith as well as uphold the law of the land regarding the legality of abortion, feel that they are witnessing to the integrity of Catholic doctrine and ethics.  However, I identify more with those bishops who ultimately see the danger in ‘weaponizing’ the Eucharist in this manner and standing back from prejudging the hearts and minds of those who humbly, as sinners, approach the table of grace and blessing for the food of eternity. 

In today’s Gospel, Jesus has pity on the pagan Canaanite women who seeks healing for her daughter.  The disciples urge Jesus to dismiss her since they perceive her unworthy of such a gift.  But Jesus, in his infinite mercy and compassion will hear none of this and grants her request.  For you see, in the Lord’s heart, he understands perfectly that his house is a house of prayer for ALL peoples.

 

Sunday Reflection: Moved with Compassion

A doctor, a teacher, an architect, and an IRS auditor were arguing about whose profession was the oldest. The doctor pointed out, “Well, Eve was made from Adam’s rib, so there must have been a doctor available to perform the operation.” “Agreed,” said the teacher, “but how would the doctor have known what to do if he hadn’t been taught? There must have been a teacher there first, to teach the doctor.”

“Maybe so,” said the architect, “but before that the world was in chaos. Someone must have brought order out of chaos and that sounds like the work of an architect.” The IRS auditor just smiled and said simply, “But who do you think created the chaos?”

My brothers and sisters, we are all competitive. Each of us likes to be first, best, the champ. That is the best reason I can think of for paying close attention to Jesus. Why? Because Jesus became one of us to show us what being our best selves really looks like. He is what we are called to become. When we look at him, we see clearly where we are supposed to be headed.

Today’s gospel captures the essence of Jesus. He had just heard about the brutal execution of his cousin, John the Baptist. So he went off to a quiet spot to be alone with his memories and to pray. But as always someone found out where he was and a crowd gathered. Now here is the point where Jesus showed what made him so special. Despite his own inner pain, the gospel says Jesus looked at the crowd and “his heart was moved with compassion.”

The word “compassion” says a lot more than we usually notice. It’s from the Latin, cum passio, and it means “to be with the feelings of another.” In a word, Jesus looked beyond his own grief and took into his heart the feelings and hurts of the crowd, and he felt those as if they were his own. Inside himself, he knew their pains and hurts, their longings and hungers. And being one with them on the inside, he

reached out and responded to those needs as naturally as if they were his own. He had to act. To ignore them would have felt like ignoring himself.

Why is it so easy for us to ignore one another’s needs, so easy to be cruel or harsh even to those we love? Perhaps because we so rarely listen to the inside of one another and so rarely take what we hear into our hearts. We stay on the outside, where it’s easy to judge or reject or simply forget that we are family, all of us. We stay on the outside where it’s too easy to fall for the lie that we can live as happy islands insulated from the rest of the world.

Jesus has shown us what a real life looks like, a life that transcends our instinctive competitiveness, a life that leaves no one an island. Jesus has not only shown us what that looks like, he’s shown us that it’s possible for human beings like us. And he’s made it clear that it’s the only way to happiness. So why not give it a try? Why not, indeed!

Sunday Reflection: An understanding heart

I think all of us can identify with the fairly common question that kids ask one another at some time or another, “If a genie popped out of that mythic lamp and told you, you could have one wish granted, what would it be.”  Of course, I always responded with, 100 more wishes! Wouldn’t life be grand if periodically we had some omnipotent Genie that could grant our wishes, dreams and desires every now and then?  

Perhaps because of the fantastic fantasy of such a dream we might find it odd that Solomon in today’s first reading when the Lord of Lord’s and King of King’s, God Himself, appeared to him and told him to ask for something and that it would be granted - one might have thought of all sorts of wonderful things that Solomon could have asked for.  Yet, he asked for only thing - an understanding heart to distinguish right from wrong. 

My sisters and brothers, there is reason why Solomon in tradition is called wise or that we refer to the wisdom of Solomon - for in responding to the Lord’s generous gift, Solomon indeed chose wisely. 

To distinguish right from wrong is the daily challenge that we must wrestle with as we strive to live lives of integrity as disciples of the Lord.  Matthew records for us the words of the Lord Jesus to his disciples - to us - speaking of the kingdom of heaven.  Through comparisons to everyday life, Jesus the master teacher, is urging us to see this new creation that he has ushered in as a treasure buried in a field, or the pearl of great price, or the great catch of fish.

In other words, seeking, living and building God’s reign in our midst must become the overriding passion that gives ultimate focus and meaning to our lives.  No wonder that we, like Solomon, should pray frequently for the gift of discernment that we too might have an understanding heart to distinguish right from wrong - what builds up the Reign of God or what can become a barrier and stumbling block for God’s Kingdom to Grow right here in our midst. 

Sadly, in these last few years, we have collectively witnessed the tragic results when wisdom is wanting in the leadership of our country.  When narcissistic needs become the motivating impetus for the craving of power and control, we witness the collapse of the harmony that should characterize a healthy society. When ideological enmity, name calling, stigmatization of the marginal and the ‘other’ become the reason for maintaining power, integrity collapses and foolishness replaces wisdom. 

To choose wisely, to distinguish right from wrong will forever be the hallmark of personal integrity and holiness as members of the Kingdom.    More often than not the wisdom to choose rightly with an understanding heart begins with the seemingly insignificant choices of everyday life.  For husbands and wives, the choice to say that kind and loving word rather than to be self-righteously critical or to play those old tapes of an unforgiven wound that we hold onto to as a power play over one’s spouse;   for parents to be affirming as they maximize praise for their children and as they teach them the consequences of choosing wisely and unwisely in their own lives; for employers who treat their employees with fairness and justice respecting the dignity of every person and for employees who bring a moral vision of what is right and wrong to the workplace.  For Bishops, Priests, deacons and all involved in the work of the Gospel, that they speak the truth in love and pray for the courage to serve rather than be served as well as the humility to seek forgiveness when we have failed to lead with integrity and virtue.

Solomon indeed chose wisely when he asked the Lord for an understanding heart to distinguish right from wrong.  In this age of moral relativism where the good is so often equated with the comfortable and convenient choices we make in life, let us too ask for that Gift from Lord.  May it be our path to integrity and holiness of life now and always.

Sunday Reflection: Trust over Fear

Some years ago there was a national study of people’s fears. Thousands of people were asked what they feared most? The pollsters were sure they already knew the answer: The fear of dying would rank number one. But they were wrong! When all the data were in, the fear of dying was a distant second. People’s greatest fear by far was the fear of speaking in public! In other words, most people would rather die than face an audience!

My brothers and sisters, fear is no stranger to any of us. In many shapes and sizes it regularly arrives on our doorstep all uninvited. It has the power to rob us of the best parts of life, the power to steal whole days, weeks, and years from us, and the power to lock us up in narrow places behind grey walls. In fact, unchecked and prolonged fear in our lives can lead to one of the most prevalent undiagnosed problems of psychological unrest for millions of people in our world - clinical depression.

Yet, even in the face of dangers that are truly life-threatening, fear can take control of us only if we let it, that is, only if our inner self is out of order and in disarray.

In his words to us about fear, Jesus is really talking to us about what may be out of order in our inner selves. He’s urging us to attend to our unfinished inner work so that fear will have no power to invade our hearts and wound or paralyze us.

So what is this unfinished inner work of ours? It varies from person to person, but it always hinges on two things: what we see when we look at ourselves (which may not be what’s actually there!), and what we see when we look at God.

When we look at ourselves, if we’re blind to any part of the goodness that God has put in us, we’re opening the door to fear and offering it a long-term lease on our life.

If we look within and close our eyes to any part of our dark side and pretend it isn’t there, we’ll end up projecting that darkness outside onto other people who will scare us to death because we’ve made them look so monstrous.

When we look at God, if we fail to recognize how completely God is father to us, or fail to see how great is his power and how unthinkable it is that he would ever abandon us - if we fail to see all that, we are giving fear the key to our lives and inviting it to stay.

What God wants for us all is a wonderful life, free of the fear that can shrivel and kill. He is asking us this very day to see him as he really is, our very dear father, and to see ourselves as he made us, gifted and cherished children who still are in the process of becoming the people God intends us to be.

“Look at what’s right under your nose,” the Lord says to us. “Trust what you see and banish fear from your heart forever.” That is his word to us this day. Let us listen to him and trust.